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Feb 15, 2014 0:48:33 GMT -5
Post by Barbie on Feb 15, 2014 0:48:33 GMT -5
Dear JustUs,
You help so many people. Please help me. I am a 15-year-old girl who has been through a lot last year. Just a little over a month ago, I had a miscarriage. It was really sad, because I wanted my baby really bad. The father -- I'll call him Bob -- didn't want anything to do with it because he claimed it wasn't his. I was very hurt by his reaction because I was so happy about the baby.
After that, everything changed between me and Bob. He told the whole school I was a whore. When I told him about the loss of the baby, he was very happy, but now he hates me more than ever.
I am so depressed and alone. Some mornings I don't even want to wake up because the pain is so bad. Sometimes I just want to end my life. I can't go to my mother about this because I never told her about anything. If she found out that her baby girl was even thinking about having sex, she would kill me.
I have nowhere to turn.
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Hurtful
Feb 16, 2014 0:36:40 GMT -5
Post by JustUs on Feb 16, 2014 0:36:40 GMT -5
Barbie,
Don't worry, time will heal most wounds. The wound you have is not ordinary, you're suffering the lost of a life along with the shame of being slandered by a former lover. Don't let this mistake define you, instead learn from it. It could have been worse. God tells us the nature of mankind is evil. This guy must not have a big IQ because he is not even smart enough to console you about the lost of a life, not just any life but his child. Sex should be preserved for true love like God intended after married, then you are more tuned in to each other needs and wants because you're one. I'm sorry you had to go through this, but this is also the type of pain your mother is trying to protect you from. There are many consequences to having sex. Especially when you're having it so young. Killing yourself is not the answer because not only does God have plans for your life, but also you have loved ones that wants you around! You are strong and not weak so don't give the devil power over your life but make better decisions. You can defeat him by resisting him and making up your mind to get your life back on track and drawing closer to God, then he'll flee from you. Ask God to come into your life and pray for that boy but don't say a word more to him because he is not good people just because he's attractive. Learn from your mistake and keep moving. Your mind is the strongest member of the body, think positive.
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Post by Barbie on Feb 16, 2014 1:29:20 GMT -5
Thanks Justus!
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