Post by Georgia on Jan 12, 2014 18:23:23 GMT -5
Hello Justus,
I'm in desperation mode right now so I really need you be as frank and honest as you possibly can. Today is Sunday, January 12th, 2014. I have been away from my home since Friday morning. I found out my husband of 4yrs, 2 children and a dog has cheated on me. He says it was a horrible mistake (yea right! How can anyone ACCIDENTALLY sleep with someone? But yes, it is horrible.) I found out because the slut texted him trying to blackmail him I guess. So he had to confess, the b@st&rd have no dealings with the finances so he came clean. I'm still in shock. When I confronted my husband he couldn't lie and claims it happened so fast and because he'd been drinking she took advantage. Justus I'm so hurt right now. I've given my husband ALL of me. I've been very understanding and when he goes out with his office crew, I don't give him a hard time at all. We are a well to do family with both incomes we're able to splurge and still be comfortable. This SLUT who thinks she can get a dime from him (which obviously she might can because she was able to twiddle his pants down...) has just taken away the very core of our relationship, trust. I don't know if I want to divorce his @ss or just let him suffer in guilt. I know he's upset and worried but he keeps telling me how HE's soo sorry and he don't even like her.....his actions has spoken a whole lot louder than his d@mn words! Please excuse my language and attitude right now. I'm still so hurt and frustrated. Please tell me what to do. I'm so confused and up in the air about so much. I cannot believe he's done this. We'll never be the same...with or withOUT each other.
I'm in desperation mode right now so I really need you be as frank and honest as you possibly can. Today is Sunday, January 12th, 2014. I have been away from my home since Friday morning. I found out my husband of 4yrs, 2 children and a dog has cheated on me. He says it was a horrible mistake (yea right! How can anyone ACCIDENTALLY sleep with someone? But yes, it is horrible.) I found out because the slut texted him trying to blackmail him I guess. So he had to confess, the b@st&rd have no dealings with the finances so he came clean. I'm still in shock. When I confronted my husband he couldn't lie and claims it happened so fast and because he'd been drinking she took advantage. Justus I'm so hurt right now. I've given my husband ALL of me. I've been very understanding and when he goes out with his office crew, I don't give him a hard time at all. We are a well to do family with both incomes we're able to splurge and still be comfortable. This SLUT who thinks she can get a dime from him (which obviously she might can because she was able to twiddle his pants down...) has just taken away the very core of our relationship, trust. I don't know if I want to divorce his @ss or just let him suffer in guilt. I know he's upset and worried but he keeps telling me how HE's soo sorry and he don't even like her.....his actions has spoken a whole lot louder than his d@mn words! Please excuse my language and attitude right now. I'm still so hurt and frustrated. Please tell me what to do. I'm so confused and up in the air about so much. I cannot believe he's done this. We'll never be the same...with or withOUT each other.
