Post by Loved on Jan 21, 2014 0:01:02 GMT -5
Dear JustUs,
Me and this guy have known each other for a long time now and he’s been with his girlfriend for 8 years. Now they recently broke up, but she is carrying his baby. While they dated they weren’t really happy together and had a lot of “problems” in the relationship. He worked on many of his issues and fixed many of his problems, but she refuses to. He says he is done with her and will never go back to her. I have always kind of liked him but never stood in the way of or tried to get between him and whoever he was dating. When he came to tell me about his break up, I felt emotional and told him how I cared for him. He tells me that he didn't know how I felt and says he really cares for me too. The only problem is they’ve been broken up maybe a week and he's asking me to be his girlfriend. I know things are too early and I might be allowing MY feelings to cloud what's best but it feels like I've been waiting on this moment all my life. Do you think the babies birth will rekindle there love for each other, or do you think he’s finally through with her??? What do you see in this situation that I'm not? Please advise. Thank you.
Misguided Love
Me and this guy have known each other for a long time now and he’s been with his girlfriend for 8 years. Now they recently broke up, but she is carrying his baby. While they dated they weren’t really happy together and had a lot of “problems” in the relationship. He worked on many of his issues and fixed many of his problems, but she refuses to. He says he is done with her and will never go back to her. I have always kind of liked him but never stood in the way of or tried to get between him and whoever he was dating. When he came to tell me about his break up, I felt emotional and told him how I cared for him. He tells me that he didn't know how I felt and says he really cares for me too. The only problem is they’ve been broken up maybe a week and he's asking me to be his girlfriend. I know things are too early and I might be allowing MY feelings to cloud what's best but it feels like I've been waiting on this moment all my life. Do you think the babies birth will rekindle there love for each other, or do you think he’s finally through with her??? What do you see in this situation that I'm not? Please advise. Thank you.
Misguided Love
