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Crushed
Jan 21, 2014 9:09:18 GMT -5
Post by Crush on Jan 21, 2014 9:09:18 GMT -5
Hi JustUs,
I found you online when I googled "heartbreak" so I'm hoping you're a gift from God to tell me what I should do. For the past 4 months I’ve had the biggest crush I’ve ever had on one of my friends. A couple of months ago, I gathered up the courage I needed to tell him how I feel, but he replied that he only liked me as a friend. That was a hard hit because he's actually a great guy and I thought I was great too. I’ve tried getting over it, but I just can’t, and it’s driving me crazy!! I keep wishing, hoping and praying that he’ll ask me out, even though I know that he won’t. I’ve thought about asking him out, and even come close to actually doing ''it'' a few times, but I’m scared. And I know I'll be on the love boat alone if I did since he knows that I know that he doesn’t feel the same way about me. But at the same time, something is telling me that I won’t be able to get this out of my system unless I give it a shot. But considering it took me 4 hours of staring at my phone, saving drafts of text messages and cancelling sent ones just to tell him that I like him, I don’t think I have the courage to ask him out again, even just as friends. What should I do??
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Crushed
Jan 21, 2014 13:45:29 GMT -5
Post by JustUs on Jan 21, 2014 13:45:29 GMT -5
Hello Crush,
God in all his infinite wisdom looks out for us even when we aren't looking out for ourselves. I understand your fascination with this guy, he seems so right. With our limited vision, we only see what we want to see. This is how the devil gains his advantage over us. You confronted dude with your feelings and intentions already to no avail. Now you want to throw yourself at him (because that is what you will be doing) by trying again. You're about to (if not already) sending the wrong message. People usually take advantage of that especially when they don't have your best interest at heart. Remember the flesh is weak but a few minutes of pleasure is all he will seek. You, on the other hand could mistake that for love and when he grow bored, that's when the heartbreaking and drama kicks in. Be patient because this guy was honest with you and that counts. He is not into you like you are to him. Find a way to get over him and allow someone who is just as interested in you step up to grace you. Any gift from God will be the perfect one for you.
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