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Post by Concerned Wife on Jan 21, 2014 18:38:17 GMT -5
JustUs,
For the past 4 months now, my husband has not had any proper relations with me. We try, but every time we get to that point, he goes down like he is no longer interested. It makes me feel like he is no longer interested or attracted to me. I want to know what I can do to help him out. He does seem to feel a bit ashamed of it happening, but instead of talking to me about it, he just grabs his pillow and heads off to the other room.
We have been together for 5 years now and nothing like this has ever happened before. I seriously doubt he is getting some on the side either because when he is not at work, he is here at home with me.
Thank you,
Lovingly Concerned
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Post by JustUs on Jan 21, 2014 20:51:37 GMT -5
Hello Concerned Wife,
Erectile dysfunction can happen at any time in a man's life. It could come from many different reasons; poor blood circulation, smoking, drinking, etc. He is embarrassed that's why he grabs the pillow and go to another room when it happens. First you need to discuss it openly because there are lots of remedies available such as Viagra, Cialis, Green tea, Natural herbals, etc. Masturbation is also an option that you could explore together. Communication is so important in relationships because it helps build it regardless of how low or high your relationship may seem. It's not healthy to act as if the problem don't exist when you BOTH know there is. To find out more in detail, strongly encourage him to go see a doctor. This way, you can have a better idea of what your dealing with and how to take in to God in prayer.
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