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Post by Secret on Jan 21, 2014 21:10:38 GMT -5
justus,
i’m 13 and starting to hit that age when i think about well......dream about.....
sex… i don’t intend on starting until the legal age of 16, but i’m thinking about it now…
i’m just worried that i do something wrong with her… or i say something wrong… i don’t want to mess things up… i’m worried about asking a girl and that sort of thing. i like watching porn on the internet and it gets me up (if you know what i mean). My mom would freak out and i don't think she knows about this sort of stuff we guys have to go thru. she would probably fall over.
i know its an awkward question and a short one, but i really need some help.
thanks
man 2 man talk
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Post by JustUs on Jan 21, 2014 23:58:35 GMT -5
Hello,
Well watching porn only makes you want to experience sex more and more. What you are experiencing with your body is called puberty. You will start to get arouses from the opposite sex and it's natural. I don't suggest you start having sex anytime soon but there are many things you can learn about girls from your mother because learning from watching porn can be confusing and misleading. Remember what you see on TV (porn) are actors, like in the movies. What you won't see in porn is someone getting pregnant or a sexual disease. If you don't feel comfortable asking your mother, ask your father, grandpa, or if none of those people are not available, you are welcome to ask Justus to avoid making mistakes. All little boys and girls go through puberty so it's nothing to be ashamed of but it is easy to make a mistake. Go easy on the porn because it's not how God intended for man and woman to abuse sex. Sex is a practice for a man and woman who are in love not lust.
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Post by Secret on Jan 22, 2014 10:17:36 GMT -5
Ok justus,
you got the idea but you don't really understand where im coming from now. thanks anyway
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Post by JustUs on Jan 22, 2014 15:10:09 GMT -5
Ok Friend,
Tell me what is it that's missing? Speak your mind so you can be helped.
Are you looking to be told it's OK to become intimate? Well No Sir! Intimacy is something special and private. It is something God intended for a husband and wife to experience. Of course now days it's been polluted, but God's word and intentions hasn't. Everyone goes through "puberty" or a time where they desire to experiment with their bodies. But it's important to remember the consequences of those experiments as well. Taking it further could lead to getting pregnant, a STD, etc. It's not a popular thing to discuss when you're not effected. But have one of those to be your consequence and you'll regret you didn't take heed to the warnings.
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Post by Secret on Jan 24, 2014 22:32:11 GMT -5
Thanks for scaring the shit out of me!
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