Post by Simple on Jan 23, 2014 6:17:44 GMT -5
Dear JustUs,
I've been dating this guy whom I truely feel could be a wonderful husband. He has a wonderful personality and he is surely a hottie! In our "getting to know you" stage I was very concerned about his past girlfriends because he talked so highly of them. He showed me a picture of a couple and those women looked beautiful. I felt very insecure in comparison to them and began wondering what he saw in me. I'm not saying I'm a troll but those pictures made me feel I was out of his league or what he usually attracts.
He assured me that he wanted to be with me and that he liked me physically as well as mentally. Now fast forward 6months into our happy relationship.......
Everything is going well but last week while on my facebook page I see a picture under one of those advertising posting for a fitness center and guess who it was? It was the same picture of one of the ex-girlfriends I was showed to by my boyfriend. I was like what??? So I googled search the picture only to find that she was a fitness model across the map and could not have been his ex.
This makes me wonder what else has he lied about. When we're together I'm wondering why did he lie to me about his exgirlfriends becase there was no need.
Should I confront him? Should I see if the others are indeed who he says they are and if not confront him then? Was it to boost his male ego? Tell me what would you do??
Thanks!
I've been dating this guy whom I truely feel could be a wonderful husband. He has a wonderful personality and he is surely a hottie! In our "getting to know you" stage I was very concerned about his past girlfriends because he talked so highly of them. He showed me a picture of a couple and those women looked beautiful. I felt very insecure in comparison to them and began wondering what he saw in me. I'm not saying I'm a troll but those pictures made me feel I was out of his league or what he usually attracts.
He assured me that he wanted to be with me and that he liked me physically as well as mentally. Now fast forward 6months into our happy relationship.......
Everything is going well but last week while on my facebook page I see a picture under one of those advertising posting for a fitness center and guess who it was? It was the same picture of one of the ex-girlfriends I was showed to by my boyfriend. I was like what??? So I googled search the picture only to find that she was a fitness model across the map and could not have been his ex.
This makes me wonder what else has he lied about. When we're together I'm wondering why did he lie to me about his exgirlfriends becase there was no need.
Should I confront him? Should I see if the others are indeed who he says they are and if not confront him then? Was it to boost his male ego? Tell me what would you do??
Thanks!
