Post by Teacher on Jan 23, 2014 20:18:21 GMT -5
Justus!
Please Help Me Make Up My Mind!!!
I feel like I am going in circles recently. I have had my mother and boyfriend yell at one another. They never have got along. I feel I must choose between them. Mom says that my boyfriend is too much of a negative influence and brings out the worst in me. My boyfriend says that mom is only saying this because I am 20 and moved out and she is still trying to be controlling over me.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. He is the reason I dropped out of college because I wanted to live with him and we didn’t have the money for me to continue going to college. I still plan on going back and my boyfriend says that he will help pay for my classes even if he has to work 2 jobs. But, it has been a year now and he still works at the same low paying job and not looking for another. I have taken up a job as a waitress just to pay our bills.
My mother is controlling, she told me if I still lived with her, then I couldn’t see my boyfriend anymore. She wants me to get my teaching degree and that's all. I am not supposed to hang out with friends or have any fun. She thinks I should always be studying.
I want to be a teacher, I want a good relationship with my mother, and I want to be loved.
What is your opinion on this matter please?
Longing to Teach
Please Help Me Make Up My Mind!!!
I feel like I am going in circles recently. I have had my mother and boyfriend yell at one another. They never have got along. I feel I must choose between them. Mom says that my boyfriend is too much of a negative influence and brings out the worst in me. My boyfriend says that mom is only saying this because I am 20 and moved out and she is still trying to be controlling over me.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. He is the reason I dropped out of college because I wanted to live with him and we didn’t have the money for me to continue going to college. I still plan on going back and my boyfriend says that he will help pay for my classes even if he has to work 2 jobs. But, it has been a year now and he still works at the same low paying job and not looking for another. I have taken up a job as a waitress just to pay our bills.
My mother is controlling, she told me if I still lived with her, then I couldn’t see my boyfriend anymore. She wants me to get my teaching degree and that's all. I am not supposed to hang out with friends or have any fun. She thinks I should always be studying.
I want to be a teacher, I want a good relationship with my mother, and I want to be loved.
What is your opinion on this matter please?
Longing to Teach
