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Post by Manna on Jan 24, 2014 1:11:45 GMT -5
JustUs,
My bf an I have been dating for five months. I have two children and when he asked me to be his gf I reminded him of my children an asked if he's ready to be with someone who has children. Everything is going smooth, he wants to spend time with my kids and is willing to try, BUT he has not told his TRADITIONAL parents I have two children. I have met them a few times and he asked me not to mention it. I haven't .... yet. I feel as though I am beginning to form a bond with his mother, as she invited me to a family christmas party. I told him I am not coming over to his house anymore and continue to talk with his mother on occasion if I need to hide the fact that I am a mother myself. What should I do?
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Post by JustUs on Jan 24, 2014 9:26:45 GMT -5
Hello Manna,
You should follow your man's lead. He likes you and wants his mom to like you as well. By not introducing you and the kids at the same time. He wanted his mom to warm to your character first so she won't have any bias against you for having children out of wedlock.She's obviously old fashion, Biblical. If he didn't have plans of keeping you, you probably wouldn't have gotten introduced to mom at all. Why would he choose to go through all the hassle? Don't feel offended because he's trying to win your over with his other favorite girl, his mother.
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