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Post by Monica on Jan 24, 2014 6:49:05 GMT -5
JustUs,
I am a beautiful 38yr old black woman living outside of Atlanta, GA. As you may have heard, Atlanta is a very busy, popular and large city in GA. I have met and dealt with many men here yet I had not found my Mr.Right. After my last break up (turned out he was confused about his sexual preferences...aka GAY), I felt like giving up. Out of curiousity I dibbled in online and met some pretty interesting characters. Then I met "Roderick." He was/is unbelievable. We haven't met but I'm not even concerned with his looks as much as I desire him to be the person he is over the phone. We have been talking for about 5months now and I'm still so attracted to him and want us to work. I haven't told anyone about him but he has me rushing home so I can lay in bed and hear him all night as we talk about our day. I think I'm falling for a man I've never seen. Is this crazy? He's in Florida and we're planning to meet. He says he'll come up here and we'll spend a weekend together. Do you think that's moving too fast? I want him to spend the weekend here in my home but being that it's our first meeting I don't want to come across weak (even though I am weak for him). I really want to see where we can go from here. Do you think I'm being dreamy and need to get my head out the clouds or should I take the risk?
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Post by JustUs on Jan 24, 2014 14:38:25 GMT -5
Hello Monica,
Roderick probably is unbelievable, that mean he could be too good to be true. Atlanta is big city and you done dealt with all types of characters, well add one more to your list. I'm not suggesting that you not meet him but please do so in a private yet public environment like a hotel, restaurant, etc. Florida is also a big dating pool so why hasn't he met someone down his way if he's so sweet? I'll tell u why, because he's not so sweet. Protect yourself at all times. Online dating is not a bad look because you do get to know a person mentally before you get to know them physically. I'm not totally discrediting Roderick, I'm just asking you to pray to ask God to control your destiny.
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Post by Monica on Jan 24, 2014 22:38:01 GMT -5
Justus, do you really think he is a host? Did I tell you I have feelings for him already? Can you imagine how I feel. Are you in love or have you ever been? Now I really wanna just get this over.
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Post by JustUs on Jan 25, 2014 19:10:55 GMT -5
Simply be careful. Don't make your judgement after knowing a piece of the puzzle. There is always more pieces to plug in. Be careful, even if you feel he is safe. We all are not perfect, so when someone presents this perfect picture, be warned of upcoming flaws. Remember, when it's too good to be true, it usually is.
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