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Post by Still on Jan 24, 2014 9:31:47 GMT -5
Justus, Hi
My partner of four years often asks me to lie still in bed, as if I’m asleep, while he makes love to me. He is particularly turned on if I’m lying on my tummy. I find this impersonal and slightly creepy, although outside the bedroom he’s as straightforward and kind as they come. Should I worry about this tendency or not?
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Post by JustUs on Jan 24, 2014 20:19:28 GMT -5
Hello Still,
I see this behavior as a fetish. You know how particular things turn certain people on? Well it could be anything and this is his. I don't think it's nothing to worry about being that you have already survived and still satisfied with him after 4 years. Just be sure to include some of the things that turn you on as well. Now if he's not willing to compromise with you then you two may have a problem. Communication is important. Talk about what he finds adorable about this position. Let him know it's OK and you have a few things that you prefer as well.
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