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Post by Charlotta on Jan 25, 2014 17:45:43 GMT -5
Justus,
I am so mad. I am 14 and 1/2 and my dad is always snoping in my room and I hate it. I just really would like some privacy but cant get any. I share a room with my little sister so I cant lock the door when im not there so i was thinking about hidding one of the webcams to call him out on it or hide something in my room and so when he finds it he will talk to me about it being there. I can than confront him about my need of privacy. I have caught him going throughts my purse more than once. I only got caught once with some weed and now he is paranoyd. But I have no proof of him digging in my room. I have just see things missing and then i would find them in his room or in the trash. I need help so bad. What can I do? What should I do?
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Post by JustUs on Jan 25, 2014 20:47:05 GMT -5
Hello Charlotta,
I know you are upset but you must understand that's what parents do. When you are older you will understand why but I'll try to calm you down. If your dad didn't love you then he would not snoop because he could care less about what you do or what you smoke. He is trying to protect you from your own worst enemy, yourself! Kids always try to grow up so fast not knowing the danger that lurks in the dark. He means you no harm and I know he's being aggravating. Bare with him but at the same time communicate with him about having privacy when needed. He won't back completely up until you are grown and he feels you are ready to adventure out on your own. Be patient with your father because he do loves you. He doesn't want anyone touching his baby, just keep that in mind while you are angry and it should cool you down a little.
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