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Post by Rachel on Jan 26, 2014 7:41:50 GMT -5
JustUs,
OK, here's the deal, I have been in a relationship for 2 years. I recently told the guy I thought it was time to move on and meet some other people. I felt that it had been long enough for him to decide if he wanted me as his wife or not. I'd hope he ask why and wanted us to work it out but he didn't ask why nor did he try to fight for me. Yet, in less than 2 months my boyfriend has a girl living with him and tells me he is in a relationship. He will not answer my texts. He does not know if there is any future for us. He just says I said let's move on and he says he did. Do you think he is coming back to me? Is this a tactic he is using to hurt me and show me I can't make him marry me? I didn't get the chance to tell him what I wanted and what I felt we needed to do in our relationship. I'd hope he'd ask and take it to another level. What have I done? Did he even love me? 2yrs is long enough to propose and he hasn't and now he's trying to hurt me? What's going on?
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Post by JustUs on Jan 26, 2014 11:08:31 GMT -5
Hello Rachel,
Calm down, you did the right thing, just not the right way. Two years is long enough for someone to make a crucial decision like marriage. But you should have expressed yourself letting him know exactly why you was letting him go. If I missed it and you did, then no you was not the one he wanted to marry. He wouldn't have let you go so easily and no it's not a fling to just to make you jealous, it's real. You gave him a way out and he took it. Instead of looking at this as a disappointment, look at it as a blessing. Would you have really wanted someone who didn't respect your values? He obviously he didn't really love you as a lifetime mate. Get over him by moving on. GOD has spoken to you through his actions, take heed.
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