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Post by Cathy on Jan 28, 2014 0:52:05 GMT -5
Hello Justus,
I have been broken up with my "soul-mate" for a little over a year now. It ended very badly. WE both said many things we did not mean out of anger. No matter what I do, I can't stop thinking about him and I still love him so much. I called him last week and he is still acting upset. I can feel his hurt so I know he can feel mine also. He tells me he is now engaged to someone and to leave him alone. I know this is a tactic to hurt me but all I need is for him to see me again so we can rekindle our undying love. I attempted to stop by his job but he had security to block my entrance and escort me off property. I know that sounds kind of extreme but he is friends with the head officer and I'm sure he called in a favor. All I need is for him to see me and feel what I'm feeling. We need to see each other eye to eye, heart to heart, and hand to hand and I just know in my heart we'll be alright. There is more that I haven't mentioned but this is the heart of it all, "I love him and want him back!" JustUs? How can I win him back?
Cathy
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Post by JustUs on Jan 28, 2014 12:15:40 GMT -5
Hello Cathy,
Cathy if everything is true what you are saying, you can win him back by simply leaving him alone. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. I know you said it's been a year and he's claiming to be engaged but be patient. Once a person has tried an avenue that fails them and they realize later that it was his one true love he wanted all the while, a more rational way of thinking kicks in. I suggest time and more space because you are coming off like a stalker right now even if his friend is the head of security. Just let him know he has your best wishes and you are finally moving on your own way. Psychologically, this will tell him if you don't want anyone else to have me, then you better claim what's yours. This will also let you know whether he's really playing games or not. If he has seriously moved on then, I suggest you do the same. Most soul mates never end up together for one selfish reason or another. Be safe and remember to always put God first.
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Post by Cathy on Jan 28, 2014 19:50:03 GMT -5
Justus it's so hard to be silent & still when our hearts are beating like a flame! I need him to know that I love him and never stopped. He needs to know that and I can't just not express myself to him. I just need a way to get to him. I don't know why he's putting up a fight but I feel that love does conquer all and it will. You said to put God first, well I have prayed and prayed. I feel this desire that I feel in my heart and soul is God telling me NOT to give up and pursue my love. So pray for me. If my soulmate, my love want's to go on a journey of love, than we will journey till we get there!
Thank you JustUs!
"Shall you be with your heart's love forever!"
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Post by JustUs on Jan 29, 2014 8:59:28 GMT -5
Cathy,
You say, "our hearts are beating like a flame," but you are speaking of him for yourself. You have to let him speak for himself by his actions. Actions speak louder than words. If you pursue too hard you will not only scare him but also show desperation. You seem to be an intelligent young lady but you are letting your love for him cloud your judgment. A man who loves you will move heaven and earth just to be with you. Don't confuse admiration for love. God created all different types of ways to contact him if he wanted to be contacted. You are beautiful and someone wants to love you for you and who you are. I can guarantee you won't have to fight so hard for his love. Be patient, because patience is the key. Thank you for your blessing and hopefully you will take heed to mine to you, let real love find you.
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