Post by Jamie on Jan 28, 2014 1:02:41 GMT -5
Dear JustUs,
I've been dating my boyfriend for five years now. We have a wonderful life together and are very happy. I am 40yrs old and he is 46. We do so much together and have so much in common. Neither one of us have any children so we live life to the fullest and enjoying each moment of it. He recently made a comment to a mutual friend that he never wants to get married or have kids. Now I'm still not in a hurry to do either, but never?! Even though I'm not in a rush, marriage is something I would like eventually. Children? well I've accepted the fact of that possibility not happening but I cannot to say I will NEVER welcome the opportunity. It's simple to say just leave him, but we're happy together, I love him, how can I just walk out on all that? Or should I? We haven't had an in depth conversation on this in a long while but I don't want to fix something that isn't broken. Should I worry or be concerned? Should I say anything at all? What do you suggest?
-Jamie
I've been dating my boyfriend for five years now. We have a wonderful life together and are very happy. I am 40yrs old and he is 46. We do so much together and have so much in common. Neither one of us have any children so we live life to the fullest and enjoying each moment of it. He recently made a comment to a mutual friend that he never wants to get married or have kids. Now I'm still not in a hurry to do either, but never?! Even though I'm not in a rush, marriage is something I would like eventually. Children? well I've accepted the fact of that possibility not happening but I cannot to say I will NEVER welcome the opportunity. It's simple to say just leave him, but we're happy together, I love him, how can I just walk out on all that? Or should I? We haven't had an in depth conversation on this in a long while but I don't want to fix something that isn't broken. Should I worry or be concerned? Should I say anything at all? What do you suggest?
-Jamie
