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Post by Ressa on Jan 28, 2014 16:06:35 GMT -5
Justus, I have a condition that causes constant migraines. A new neighbor heard about my illness and is determined to become my second mother, an ole lady. She continually tries to visit, call and text even though my husband and I have asked her not to.
I dislike hurting people. How can I get her to stop her stalker-ish behavior without making this old lady my enemy?
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Post by JustUs on Jan 28, 2014 19:13:42 GMT -5
Hello Ressa,
Older people don't usually grow old without growing wiser, so I don't think you will hurt her feelings by requesting your space. Something tells me you are the type who has short patience and people easily irritate you. Therefore this definitely is a factor considered in contributing to the headaches. Did you ever think the Holy Spirit maybe trying to speak to you? Listen. Have you at least given her the time to give you some helpful tips? If u don't want her around, keep in mind older folks are not just wise but also they respect bluntness, be direct and she will understand.
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