Post by Mrs. Unhappy on Jan 30, 2014 6:23:26 GMT -5
Hello JustUs,
I have been married for almost 4 years and to be honest the last 3 years have really taken a toll on me. At first everything was great. We started dating june 3rd 2010 and by october of 2010 were living together and we were married by april 14 2011. It was great but things started to change. He became more concerned when i went to visit my mom (she lives 2 hours away from our home). He would call 3-4 times to just "check on me". I have never been allowed to be on his checking account. He works and I dont . I am going to college but he controls all the money. I have to ask for gas money or money to go visit my mom. He then out of no where decided in december 2013 to move downstairs to the couch and stopped have a physical relationship with me. Its now a new year, 2014 (January) and still no change. He is 11 years older than me. I am 29 this year and he turns 40. He sometimes talks to me like i am a child and tells me that my attitude is bitchy all the time. He blames most of the arguments on me. I know that sometimes i am prolly to blame for a few disagreements but I dont think its completely my fault. he also guards his cell phone like its fort knox. I really need some advice. I dont know what to do and honestly cant talk to anyone here because he knows everyone and I just have no where to turn. Please help.
I have been married for almost 4 years and to be honest the last 3 years have really taken a toll on me. At first everything was great. We started dating june 3rd 2010 and by october of 2010 were living together and we were married by april 14 2011. It was great but things started to change. He became more concerned when i went to visit my mom (she lives 2 hours away from our home). He would call 3-4 times to just "check on me". I have never been allowed to be on his checking account. He works and I dont . I am going to college but he controls all the money. I have to ask for gas money or money to go visit my mom. He then out of no where decided in december 2013 to move downstairs to the couch and stopped have a physical relationship with me. Its now a new year, 2014 (January) and still no change. He is 11 years older than me. I am 29 this year and he turns 40. He sometimes talks to me like i am a child and tells me that my attitude is bitchy all the time. He blames most of the arguments on me. I know that sometimes i am prolly to blame for a few disagreements but I dont think its completely my fault. he also guards his cell phone like its fort knox. I really need some advice. I dont know what to do and honestly cant talk to anyone here because he knows everyone and I just have no where to turn. Please help.
