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Post by George on Jan 30, 2014 6:38:00 GMT -5
Helo JustUs,
I am 30 years old and since last 3 years Im in relations with two girls. One is working with me in my office and other I came to know her through a friend. Well at beginning it started this with us flirting, so I didn’t think of having two. But each kept calling and wanting to be with me so I enjoyed each company and now I have 2. Now I feel that I need to choose one of them for serious relation. My office girl is helpful to me at work. Though sometimes she gives me hard time too, by not co-operating with me at
office work. But at this point I need her too as she is quite helpful in office matters. My second girl is out of the office. she co-operates with me and it seems that she can do anything for me. I need her too as I reside out of my homeplace and since she is native of that
place. though my first girl Is also native but second is more flexible in helping with outside work than first. We
also have some small quarrel buts that’s normal. My second girl knows more about me than the first. As concern about beauty my first
girl is having better looks than second( sorry if I sound to be cheapo, but I don’t mean to compare them )
Now what must I do, to choose one of them without hurting
other.
Please guide, George
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Post by JustUs on Jan 30, 2014 17:10:23 GMT -5
George,
You look for compatibility in a life partner and pretentious mother of your child. Beauty shouldn't be that high on your judgment scale because her attitude or personality is what you will be wrestling with for years to come. Sounds to me the office fling is for convenience and the out of office is something more real, go with that. You will get bore with office fling if you don't have anything but sex involved out of office. You, like all (or most) humankind are manipulative, trying to please the flesh. My advice is to choose quickly before your bad habits catch up to bite you. Or just leave both alone and let fate find her for you. You don't seem to ready either way.
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Post by George on Feb 1, 2014 18:10:16 GMT -5
How so rude my friend!
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