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Post by Bria on Feb 3, 2014 12:33:26 GMT -5
Good Morning JustUs,
One of my childhood friends got married at a young age. She's now expecting and due in a few months. Every day she messages me on Facebook about something else her husband has done to cause her emotional stress. For example, a few weeks ago she found flirtatious erotic messages he had exchanged with another girl.
I want to help her because we have been friends for so long. We're both now 19, and I feel I should know how to help her, but since I've never been married I don't know what to say. Any advice?
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Post by JustUs on Feb 4, 2014 1:18:36 GMT -5
Bria,
My advice is to be careful when meddling in your friend's marital affairs. When two people get married God join them as one. Two things are going on here; they are still young and still newlyweds, that spells trouble. They are going to have all types of dumb arguments and disagreements. All you can do is support your girlfriend by comforting her in the fact that he married her so he must love her. Men have commitment issues at young ages and the fact that he was man enough to marry her that young speak volumes. You don't want to take part in the breaking up of a marriage. Your girlfriend is just venting most of the time. When there's a serious issue, you will know when to step in to help. I guarantee you as long as they are married they will have issues. But right now more so because they are still adjusting to living together.
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