Post by Sandra on Feb 4, 2014 1:41:47 GMT -5
Hello JustUs,
I am a 27-year-old woman who would like to meet and date a man who respects women.
Two years ago, my husband and I were divorced. Since then my dating experiences have been disappointing.
My friends and acquaintances all say that meeting men in a bar is not a good way to find someone with whom I could be happy. I agree, because most of the men I have met in bars never call after the first date. They are unemployed, recently separated, or drop me after a few dates when I won't have sex.
I have contacted local parishes to find out about weekend retreats and charity functions, but dating men I met there didn't bring any better results.
I don't understand why dating is such a problem. I'm blonde, attractive and friendly. I work and attend college full time. I am ambitious, a voracious reader and can carry on an intelligent conversation.
Most men I've encountered seem happy to live at home with their parents and don't want to start a family of their own.
I'm looking for someone who would take me to dinner and a movie and treat me like a lady. I don't mind staying home and watching movies sometimes, but men today apparently want only casual sex -- not relationships.
Unlike my girlfriends who are satisfied with bar-hopping every weekend for male companionship, I want to share my life with someone and have a family. I'm not asking for an instant marriage proposal, but I would like a meaningful relationship. Have you any suggestions?
I am a 27-year-old woman who would like to meet and date a man who respects women.
Two years ago, my husband and I were divorced. Since then my dating experiences have been disappointing.
My friends and acquaintances all say that meeting men in a bar is not a good way to find someone with whom I could be happy. I agree, because most of the men I have met in bars never call after the first date. They are unemployed, recently separated, or drop me after a few dates when I won't have sex.
I have contacted local parishes to find out about weekend retreats and charity functions, but dating men I met there didn't bring any better results.
I don't understand why dating is such a problem. I'm blonde, attractive and friendly. I work and attend college full time. I am ambitious, a voracious reader and can carry on an intelligent conversation.
Most men I've encountered seem happy to live at home with their parents and don't want to start a family of their own.
I'm looking for someone who would take me to dinner and a movie and treat me like a lady. I don't mind staying home and watching movies sometimes, but men today apparently want only casual sex -- not relationships.
Unlike my girlfriends who are satisfied with bar-hopping every weekend for male companionship, I want to share my life with someone and have a family. I'm not asking for an instant marriage proposal, but I would like a meaningful relationship. Have you any suggestions?
