Post by Jenn on Feb 5, 2014 15:16:22 GMT -5
Hi Justus,
After a two-year relationship ended, I got pregnant on the rebound. I called my ex and told him I was having a baby with another man because I wanted to hurt him. Apparently it worked -- at least that's what his best friend told me.
Now that a few months have passed, I ran into him and all those loving feelings I had for him came rushing back. He said that he never stopped caring for me and wanted us to make things work. He said we both were stubborn and ended abruptly and went separate ways without trying to keep our love going. Now we have moved on. Should I tell him I still have feelings for him?
The father of this baby is a good-for-nothing deadbeat. He wants to be father-of-the-year without helping me financially. Granted I'm only 4 months pregnant, but there is so much he could help me with and isn't. He says his responsibility is to our child, not me. But duuuuh!! I'm the one carrying the child. He is so stupid!
What should I do about my feelings for my ex, and what should I do about the father of my baby?
After a two-year relationship ended, I got pregnant on the rebound. I called my ex and told him I was having a baby with another man because I wanted to hurt him. Apparently it worked -- at least that's what his best friend told me.
Now that a few months have passed, I ran into him and all those loving feelings I had for him came rushing back. He said that he never stopped caring for me and wanted us to make things work. He said we both were stubborn and ended abruptly and went separate ways without trying to keep our love going. Now we have moved on. Should I tell him I still have feelings for him?
The father of this baby is a good-for-nothing deadbeat. He wants to be father-of-the-year without helping me financially. Granted I'm only 4 months pregnant, but there is so much he could help me with and isn't. He says his responsibility is to our child, not me. But duuuuh!! I'm the one carrying the child. He is so stupid!
What should I do about my feelings for my ex, and what should I do about the father of my baby?
