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Post by Olivia on Feb 6, 2014 1:28:02 GMT -5
Hi JustUs,
I'm a 20-year-old college student with a great job, life ambitions and parents who love me. They raised me to think for myself and follow my dreams.
I didn't date much in high school, but a few months ago I met a wonderful young man who is in the Army. Two things about this relationship are different: First, we met on the Internet, communicated online for several weeks, then took the next step to meet in person. The second is, "Jack" is 10 years older than I am and has a son from a previous marriage.
Jack is stationed not far from me. When I met him, I realized he was everything a woman could want. I did a background check and everything he told me is true. He supports me fully in pursuing my degree and my future career. But I'm afraid to introduce him to my parents because they're old-fashioned. They are leery about people meeting on the Internet. They also want me to meet a guy closer to my age.
The more Jack and I are together, the more I realize how much I love him. I want to introduce the man I love to my family. How do I proceed with this? I am scared that my parents won't accept Jack. How can I get them to accept my choice?
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Post by JustUs on Feb 6, 2014 10:38:21 GMT -5
Olivia,
Meeting someone on the internet is not a terrible thing, it's actually a more efficient way of getting to know someone. The flesh war against the soul, so getting to know someone mentally before getting to know them physically is an advantage against tempting fleshly desires. Sinful desires often cause a clouded judgment. Your parents may not see it that way but if you sit down and explain the process as well as the love and supportive ways of your mate, it would help them to understand better. Why should how you meet affect the outcome of the meeting? GOD is a mighty God, he can shape the outcome of people lives how he see fit. As long as you are living in a healthy, loving relationship, I'm sure your parents will learn to accept your situation. If you are happy and sure of what you want, they will have no choice but to accept it.
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Post by Olivia on Feb 6, 2014 20:57:34 GMT -5
Thanks Justus. I just needed the confirmation.
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