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Post by Tina on Feb 7, 2014 6:18:25 GMT -5
JustUs,
I have been dating someone for about six months. We fell in love very quickly and spend almost every second together.
Our relationship has hit a rough patch ever since he found out that I have dated African-American men. He can't seem to get over it, but he keeps saying he wants to try to make it work. He says cruel things sometimes when he gets mad, and it seems to be on his mind constantly. I don't know what to do or how to make this better. We fell in love, but it seems to be spoiled because of my past.
This isn't a big deal to me. I have always dated people I thought were good people. He seems to view it as disgusting. I thought he was my soul mate because we connected so well on everything else, but I'm afraid he will never get past this issue and I may be wasting my time. What should I do?
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Post by JustUs on Feb 7, 2014 14:54:02 GMT -5
Tina,
You know the answer to your own question. He's not your soul mate and if you are only 6 months in and having this type of turbulence about your past, it will continue. That's an issue you can't change no matter how much new history you and him make. His hang ups on this issue will always have him feeling some type of way. It's best now to part ways before you endure the abuse over a long haul only to find out later what you already knew. The Spirit speaks to us and all we have to do is listen. The way he feel could be imbedded in his brain from the way he was raised, how do you change that without rebooting the brain? He need Jesus the Christ our Lord and Savior because that's the only one that has that kind of healing power.
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Post by Tina on Feb 16, 2014 1:13:25 GMT -5
Hello Justus, I just wanted to give you an update on me and my EX. Though he kept saying he wanted us to work, he would still make unnecessary comments that were not comfortable. We couldn't see eye to eye or meet in the middle so I told him I needed to leave. I told him he needed to find someone that was as ignorant as he was in order to be happy.
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