Post by Aimee on Feb 8, 2014 12:00:27 GMT -5
Hi Justus,
I have a friend who I'm sort of worried about. She is so beautiful but everything she does is fake. It's all for show, for the internet. She wears a lot of makeup and a lot of fake tan and she takes pictures of herself every day to put them online. With her makeup on she is the most confident person I know, maybe too confident, even a little vain and selfish but she would not be seen outside her house without it. Without her make up, she looks totally different. She even transforms her lips and eyes to appear differently than they naturally are. Don't ask me how she does it, but she does.
When we're out, she gets noticed a lot. Guys comment on her looks and her body all the time. She loves it. I'm just worried that she is giving the impression that she looks good constantly and is so naturally sexy. The men she dates all want her for what they see not her mind because she has even played the dumb roll to date men because they buy her things. I'm just wondering is there any advice I can give her to make her love her natural self so that men can love her for her natural self also? I don't know how to tell her without being mean about it and she is my best friend, so I don't want to just say "stop being fake and stop keeping up that appearance."
If I'm sounding jealous I don't mean to be. I think we both are pretty hot but she over does it and I feel like I'm walking around with a teen wanna beauty queen sometimes. We're almost 21 now and need to act more like adults than teens! Thanks for your advice please.
I have a friend who I'm sort of worried about. She is so beautiful but everything she does is fake. It's all for show, for the internet. She wears a lot of makeup and a lot of fake tan and she takes pictures of herself every day to put them online. With her makeup on she is the most confident person I know, maybe too confident, even a little vain and selfish but she would not be seen outside her house without it. Without her make up, she looks totally different. She even transforms her lips and eyes to appear differently than they naturally are. Don't ask me how she does it, but she does.
When we're out, she gets noticed a lot. Guys comment on her looks and her body all the time. She loves it. I'm just worried that she is giving the impression that she looks good constantly and is so naturally sexy. The men she dates all want her for what they see not her mind because she has even played the dumb roll to date men because they buy her things. I'm just wondering is there any advice I can give her to make her love her natural self so that men can love her for her natural self also? I don't know how to tell her without being mean about it and she is my best friend, so I don't want to just say "stop being fake and stop keeping up that appearance."
If I'm sounding jealous I don't mean to be. I think we both are pretty hot but she over does it and I feel like I'm walking around with a teen wanna beauty queen sometimes. We're almost 21 now and need to act more like adults than teens! Thanks for your advice please.
