Post by Heather on Feb 8, 2014 12:03:45 GMT -5
Justus,
A week ago today I got match made to a guy over Facebook from a friend. I was told that I'm his type and he's definitely mine—haha. We're both 19 years old. We have talked over Facebook almost everyday since becoming friends on Facebook. He only messages me once a day and it's usually only a few lines so our conversation hasn't expanded as quick as I want it to so in desperate measures I asked him for his number. He ignored the question and then later on I gave him my number. He then replied saying he didn't want to swap numbers till he knew me better. I found that strange when he barely checks Facebook how can that happen? A day later we had a long conversation compared to the normal which was nice but nothing has gone further from that boring stuff like "what do you do for work?" Even though it may seem like we have no connection I feel we do but it's not shining through enough or at least not fast enough, and sometimes I feel like I'm the starter of everything. I don't know what to do at this point. It got a tiny bit flirty today but it needs to go better. I don't want to freak him out. When is the best time to ask to meet him? Do you think I'm overreacting? Do I need to make a different move to get it going? Sorry for it being so long but thank you for your help!
A week ago today I got match made to a guy over Facebook from a friend. I was told that I'm his type and he's definitely mine—haha. We're both 19 years old. We have talked over Facebook almost everyday since becoming friends on Facebook. He only messages me once a day and it's usually only a few lines so our conversation hasn't expanded as quick as I want it to so in desperate measures I asked him for his number. He ignored the question and then later on I gave him my number. He then replied saying he didn't want to swap numbers till he knew me better. I found that strange when he barely checks Facebook how can that happen? A day later we had a long conversation compared to the normal which was nice but nothing has gone further from that boring stuff like "what do you do for work?" Even though it may seem like we have no connection I feel we do but it's not shining through enough or at least not fast enough, and sometimes I feel like I'm the starter of everything. I don't know what to do at this point. It got a tiny bit flirty today but it needs to go better. I don't want to freak him out. When is the best time to ask to meet him? Do you think I'm overreacting? Do I need to make a different move to get it going? Sorry for it being so long but thank you for your help!
