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Post by Abigal on Feb 10, 2014 17:54:59 GMT -5
Hi Justus,
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years, living together for two. He says Valentine's Day is a made-up holiday to get people to spend money. I told him every holiday is geared toward people spending money.
I find myself feeling angry and hurt that I'm not receiving anything for Valentine's Day. He never buys cards or flowers for me. How do I communicate to him that this is important to me without making things worse?
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Post by JustUs on Feb 11, 2014 11:09:25 GMT -5
Abigal,
You both have valid points. He could be just cheap. He probably participated with the holiday long enough to know he had you hooked and then let it go. That's a prime example of a person, especially men only doing what they feel are required to get what they want. It's a form of settling, but I'm going to address your question. Let him know that the whole idea of Valentine's day turns you on. Let him know it's something about this whole process of gift giving makes you feel wanted, so in return you turn into a real nympho sexually. Watch his reaction, because the average person is flesh driven, this will give him a rise. But if you would like to keep this ritual going, be prepared to live up to the hype on every Valentine's day!
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