Post by Curtis on Feb 10, 2014 20:29:08 GMT -5
JustUs,
I am in a serious emotional crisis.
I'm not a suave type dude nor am I close to ever being a Mr. Cool or any of the other mocho type names for good looking men. But I've always been respectful and if a girl would just give me a chance, I know I can be a good man to her.
I've known this girl for maybe a year and I asked her out within 3 weeks of meeting. She refused. 8 months later, we are very close friends and I'm still liking her. Over time my love for her has become very obvious to our friends, she always knew but others didn't. Now they constantly keep teasing us and it is becoming very uncomfortable for me.
I want to move on but I am having the hardest time. Seems like when I'm at my wits end and give up she then texts me and asks, "what's up? or how I'm doing?" I then end up feeling as though she must have some sort of feelings for me to have thought of me to send a text. Stupid huh? I know I shouldn't be spending so much time with her because it's causing me to keep falling more and more in love. I just cant stop myself from thinking about her and letting her go. How do I? I need to move on before she gets a boyfriend because when she does, if I still hold the same feelings for her, I will be so shattered!
I am in a serious emotional crisis.
I'm not a suave type dude nor am I close to ever being a Mr. Cool or any of the other mocho type names for good looking men. But I've always been respectful and if a girl would just give me a chance, I know I can be a good man to her.
I've known this girl for maybe a year and I asked her out within 3 weeks of meeting. She refused. 8 months later, we are very close friends and I'm still liking her. Over time my love for her has become very obvious to our friends, she always knew but others didn't. Now they constantly keep teasing us and it is becoming very uncomfortable for me.
I want to move on but I am having the hardest time. Seems like when I'm at my wits end and give up she then texts me and asks, "what's up? or how I'm doing?" I then end up feeling as though she must have some sort of feelings for me to have thought of me to send a text. Stupid huh? I know I shouldn't be spending so much time with her because it's causing me to keep falling more and more in love. I just cant stop myself from thinking about her and letting her go. How do I? I need to move on before she gets a boyfriend because when she does, if I still hold the same feelings for her, I will be so shattered!
