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Post by Jada on Feb 11, 2014 11:25:07 GMT -5
Hello Justus,
Ok, so I have a 3 year old and a 4 year old from a previous relationship, and my soon to be husband always seems to be picking on my children. He is constantly telling them off for no reason at all. I’m pregnant with his child, and he has confessed to a friend that he can’t stand my kids. I really have no idea what I’m meant to do! My kids are trying so hard with him and he just doesn’t show any emotion to them at all. I’m 23, and we have been together for two years now and it’s really getting to me!
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Post by JustUs on Feb 11, 2014 22:42:53 GMT -5
Jada,
You have a serious problem. Through out the years it will only get worse. It has to be in you to love your kids, and he doesn't have the love in him. Thank the Holy Spirit for revealing such a thing to you before you seal the deal. Your desire in wanting to be married to the father of your child is warring with your spirit. Doing the right thing IS letting this evil guy go. GOD said whomever hurt or mislead the children might as well tie a noose around his or her neck with something heavy attached because he will respond. It's sad but talking with him about this will probably only cause a temporary fix. Pray for him. Even if you turn a blind eye to this situation just to please yourself, this problem won't go away. It's not impossible but it's hard to pair step parents, because it's always the kids that suffer.
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Post by Jada on Feb 13, 2014 17:42:25 GMT -5
Justus,
You are so right but what am I going to do with 3 children alone? I know that it can be done because I hear stories all the time of single parents. I have never been alone. I love my children and only want the best for them. I told my husband to be that I don't like how he treats my children and he says he treats all children the same. I don't know what to do right now.
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Post by JustUs on Feb 16, 2014 0:50:21 GMT -5
Jada,
You can do it. What were you going to do when it was just you and your 2 children? There are many goverment programs at your hand until you get on your feet. Time to look for work (if you haven't already started working) and find out about all the programs that are available to assist you. If you'd like, send me a private message letting me know you're interested and I'll help look up some information for you.
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