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Feb 25, 2014 1:23:03 GMT -5
Post by Salley on Feb 25, 2014 1:23:03 GMT -5
Hello JustUs,
I wake up and hear birds chirping, the sun shining, and looking forward to having the best day ever! Yes, I'm in love. I have fallen in love with what appears to be a dream man! Right now our love feels like a fairy tale. And this is why I'm coming to you.
Ever heard that saying, "when it's too good to be true, it usually isn't?" Well I'm trying to tell myself this. I met a man that LOVES the Lord. Images his life after what the Bible says and is completely humble in his ways. He doesn't pressure me for intimacy nor has he proven to have hidden agendas for selfish reasons. He is simply a good guy. He is very direct and tells me his feelings whether he agrees or not. It's been 10mos and his character & personality impresses me more and more. I can honestly say this man fits 99.9% of what I want in a husband, father of my children, friend, etc.
This scares me. I have prayed to God to send someone in my life that I can be happy with and didn't want to go down that long road of getting to know someone and then find out they are no good. Now here I am with someone who just may be that one answered prayer... and I'm kinda scared.
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Post by Amber on Feb 28, 2014 0:56:53 GMT -5
Enjoy the moment. You can't predict life. All you can do is live it. Falling in love can be scary because most people put their heart out there hoping and trusting that the other is doing the same. When 2 are not equally inputing, it can be heartbreaking for the one who gives their all. But it's a risk in everything. If you feel you can love this man, then give it your best shot. Please God and let God reveal. Time will tell.
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Scared
Mar 19, 2014 0:21:45 GMT -5
Post by JustUs on Mar 19, 2014 0:21:45 GMT -5
Hello Salley,
Our Father has not given us the spirit of fear. He has given us the spirit of Love, Power and a Sound Mind. Utilize the gifts and promises of our almighty rather than focus on the opposite of. In every decision we make there will be a consequence. Everyone has disappointments as well as gratifying times in their life. Enjoy the time your spending with your friend and allow it to grow. Not to say ignore any red flags, but to proceed with caution and let nature run it's course.
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