Post by Alexandria on Apr 21, 2014 23:53:39 GMT -5
Hi Justus,
I dated my ex for six years, but we broke up recently. The problem is, we signed a lease on our apartment that won't be up until next year. He still lives here, and I don't have the heart to kick him out. Financially, our living together makes sense, and I'd rather live with him than with a stranger.
Justus, this living arrangement has made it tough to get over him. Our breakup was amicable -- somewhat -- and we remain civil to each other. I thought I had no desire to get back together with him but if I were to see him with someone else or on the phone, I don't know how I'd feel. I find it hard because I'm not sure how to survive this weird situation I'm in. Is it a good idea to keep living together? Part of me feels that I should cut all tides with him and the other feels as though I'm just trying to hurt him to satisfy my hurt. What should I do.
I dated my ex for six years, but we broke up recently. The problem is, we signed a lease on our apartment that won't be up until next year. He still lives here, and I don't have the heart to kick him out. Financially, our living together makes sense, and I'd rather live with him than with a stranger.
Justus, this living arrangement has made it tough to get over him. Our breakup was amicable -- somewhat -- and we remain civil to each other. I thought I had no desire to get back together with him but if I were to see him with someone else or on the phone, I don't know how I'd feel. I find it hard because I'm not sure how to survive this weird situation I'm in. Is it a good idea to keep living together? Part of me feels that I should cut all tides with him and the other feels as though I'm just trying to hurt him to satisfy my hurt. What should I do.
