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Post by Fooled on Jan 13, 2014 3:52:52 GMT -5
Dear Justus,
I met a man recently who made me feel like I was the Queen in his world. He came along when I was feeling lonely and wanted someone in my life. I thought he was perfect in every way. So perfect I became foolish and let my guard down. When we became intimate he wanted to try all sorts of things. Things I'd never done before. But because I felt I loved him, I agreed. Justus, this man recorded our intimate involvements and posted them on the internet. I have been approached by women (and men) whom I don't know making comments about the video. When I approached him in rage he just laughed. We were together for over 2 months before we did anything and during all that time, he didn't develop any feelings or remorse to what he had planned to do to me? I'm so embarrassed and hurt right now. What can I do?
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Post by JustUs on Jan 13, 2014 17:19:40 GMT -5
Hello Fooled,
First thing you can do is be more careful and forgive yourself. Unfortunately we have predictors out there that don't care who they hurt just as long as they get what they want. Things can be really simple, follow God's Word. Keep your body sacred by refraining from sex til marriage but of course we are humans so we are going to adventure. Weeping only endures for a season and that means the shame will eventually where off as well. In the meantime and between time, you should do a force stop on all these internet sites because it's illegal for them to post footage of people without consent. If this jerk is dumb enough to claim ownership then threaten to press charges on grounds that you was recorded without your consent. In most states this law is being enforced. People must stop trying to get over one hurt by replacing it with another. Fasting is when you give up things or a thing you enjoy most just to please and fellowship with God. Try it the next time you fall into a funk.
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