Post by Regretful on Jan 13, 2014 22:20:05 GMT -5
Hello Justus,
I have a serious confession and need your advice. I've been told since high school I have a very sexy voice. It must be true because I meet a lot of people (men) by the phone from them hitting on me and flirting because of my voice. Of all things, I work as a customer service representative for a popular cell phone company so I meet all types of men. Here is my problem.... Over the years I've packed on a few extra pounds and don't feel as attractive as I want to be. Being single, that's a challenge because people see you and are attracted to you how you carry yourself and how you see yourself too. I recently met this man (over the phone, as usual) and we connected instantly over the phone. He offered for me to save his number and I did. And I called him too. We've been talking non stop and the great part about it is he lives less than 1hr from me. Now we have sent pictures to each other but I have to confess, the pictures he has seen of me were like when I was in high school, almost 15yrs ago. Those pictures I shared were digitally updated so it looks more recent. I know I know, I shouldn't have, but I got nervous.He wants to meet this weekend and I'm thinking of blowing him off. I really like him but I don't think I can handle rejection. I've tried telling him the truth many times but it's so hard to tell. What can I do? I know I'm wrong and leading him on but if I were more confident in myself, I think we could really be something special. I don't think he'll like me as I am.
I have a serious confession and need your advice. I've been told since high school I have a very sexy voice. It must be true because I meet a lot of people (men) by the phone from them hitting on me and flirting because of my voice. Of all things, I work as a customer service representative for a popular cell phone company so I meet all types of men. Here is my problem.... Over the years I've packed on a few extra pounds and don't feel as attractive as I want to be. Being single, that's a challenge because people see you and are attracted to you how you carry yourself and how you see yourself too. I recently met this man (over the phone, as usual) and we connected instantly over the phone. He offered for me to save his number and I did. And I called him too. We've been talking non stop and the great part about it is he lives less than 1hr from me. Now we have sent pictures to each other but I have to confess, the pictures he has seen of me were like when I was in high school, almost 15yrs ago. Those pictures I shared were digitally updated so it looks more recent. I know I know, I shouldn't have, but I got nervous.He wants to meet this weekend and I'm thinking of blowing him off. I really like him but I don't think I can handle rejection. I've tried telling him the truth many times but it's so hard to tell. What can I do? I know I'm wrong and leading him on but if I were more confident in myself, I think we could really be something special. I don't think he'll like me as I am.
