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Post by Roger on Jan 17, 2014 1:05:18 GMT -5
Sup JustUs,
I sure do hope you got a word for me because I can use it... seriously! Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a year. We cant say to have been close because frankly we are on different continents but we don’t find a problem in that. That is not the problem though as silly as it may seem I do love her. We are both young, 17. The problem is she has been more sexually active then me and she has done it more then 20 times which I think is a large amount. I struggle in having thoughts of her exs popping in my head and it pisses me off and I don’t know why. Its not fair on her that I shud be depressed thinking about them and what they have done to (and with) her. Even if she dosent see them anymore. I truly believe I love her and I want this badness to end. Is there anything I can do?-Roger
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Post by JustUs on Jan 17, 2014 17:44:28 GMT -5
Hello Roger,
You are mature for your age. That what you are feeling is a natural reaction of most men thinking when it comes to their queen. You may or may not settle with this young lady but more than likely not. Simply because y'all are so young and it will be so many more passing stars. With things like sexual history on your mind now, it will become an issue later when someone comes along that let's say is a virgin and she's interested. It won't be fair to her later on when this occurs. And because of these type reactions your partners sexual history, God through all his infinite wisdom warn us that if we cannot sustain from sex to get married, limiting our partners. Mankind rarely gets it right. Other than that my friend, it is what it is. Accept her as she is or let it go because the memories will always be there but hopefully y'all will be able to create a new history.
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